Zephyr's Blog

After years of thinking about it, I finally took a job at a restaurant. One of the lines from one of my healer's Julia-Anna in Virginia, kept echoing in my head which was, "Stop making things higher or lower or bigger or smaller. Just do what you have to do to make it work."

She was referring of...

Quote 3: Let us please stop viewing people as only their professions and in so doing, become more human.

It is easy, in this hyper-paced world, to view people as what their employers view them as, because almost everything on the planet currently, is about money. Or rather, about notes and co...

Quote 2: You are not alone. Every day, humans around the world are working towards making everyone's lives easier. We are in this together.

In our moments of sadness, confusion, depression and pain, it is a natural human feeling to feel lonely, and as though we are lonely and abandoned.

Remember ...

Quote 1: You can hold the light for yourself and anyone else, as long as you choose to.

In our moments of anguish, anger, frustration, confusion and pain, it is a natural human instinct to lash out at others. Or even ourselves. 

Remember, that you are far more capable and powerful than this, and ...

We're moving into the first house we own together as a couple, and so I had to go shopping to purchase an adjustable desk, or what's known as a standing desk.

Ergoworks Singapore

Ergoworks Singapore is a nice shop we found at Marina Square in Singapore where you can get a fully customised solut...

My life only started to become better once I simplified.

Really, REALLY starting to cut things out from multiple email accounts, social media accounts (an identity crisis and an unwillingness to just show all parts of me - 10 youtube channels, facebook pages, instagram accounts all showing differen...

It sure feels strange when your own family questions your every move. Despite the complex feelings, standing your ground is key to building your own identity and life.

Just today, the day of my daughter's birthday party, a family member commented, "I'm shocked that this is how you're running a chil...

The small things you're saying to yourself day in and day out which you think don't matter, actually shape your future.

For example, when you make a few simple household mistakes in the day and if you say to yourself under your breath..."Sigh... I'm an idiot," and even if you smile after that like ...

In the end, real communication only happens when two people connect. To connect, you need to understand where the other is coming from.

 It is all too easy to want to force your view down the other person's throat, even if you KNOW it's the truth, for example in the case of a 37-year old (me), e...

Cheers to the people who try to be "well-meaning" and stand in the way of our dreams. At the end of they day, they're just scared humans.

I remember in 2009 when my parents went around their friend circle calling everyone they could and asking them to speak to me, or maybe those people just wanted ...

I remember when I was 14-15, trying to play Hockey better on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays ("because if you don't do this... how will you be an "all rounder" and get access to the best schools?" - what a waste of time that was!), and learning how to Debate in school in Raffles Institution. Despite...

I was recently watching "Selling The City" on Netflix, as I generate a lot of positive energy for myself via watching business people and being in their presence (in reality or virtually through a TV screen).

In one of the episodes, a lady said something to the effect of getting "some champagne and...