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Stand Up To Family If You Need To

It sure feels strange when your own family questions your every move. Despite the complex feelings, standing your ground is key to building your own identity and life.

Just today, the day of my daughter's birthday party, a family member commented, "I'm shocked that this is how you're running a chil...

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Meet People Where They're At

In the end, real communication only happens when two people connect. To connect, you need to understand where the other is coming from.

 It is all too easy to want to force your view down the other person's throat, even if you KNOW it's the truth, for example in the case of a 37-year old (me), e...

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Small Steps Are The Best

Often, we have large tasks and goals ahead of us. I don't know any humans who "dream small". I know plenty who are stressed out though.

This happens because we try to bite off more than we can chew. As I go through a re-setting of my system to bring me back to who I was when I was a child before I ...

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Are Your Family Whatsapp Groups Eating Away At Your Soul?

It's good to be in touch with people, sometimes even people you barely know... but how much is too much?

There was an extended family Whatsapp group I left, of the second cousins, on my Mom's Mom's side (my mother's mother's siblings' kids). A group of people from all over the globe. 

The 1st time...

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1 Simple Way To Improve Your Relationship

While there is a place and time to implement complex strategies, I find that sometimes with humans, the simplest things are the most effective. This also extends into relationships.

Here's a simple thing that my wife and I did plenty in 2020 during that big thing that was spread throughout the Earth ...

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3 Reasons You Cannot Fix Your Relationship "Immediately"

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Relationships can be the most complicated things you will ever encounter, and also some of the most blissful.


Whether things are chugging along smoothly for you, or things are sour, I've come to realise that you can always keep improving things and making them better. Either you're into never-en...

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Is That Person Actually... "Negative"? You May Not Have The Full Story.

Many people think that just because you're pointing out unpleasant things daily, means you're "negative", a "complainer" or a "drama queen".

As someone who myself thought that about others in the past, may I share...

That is 100% INACCURATE about some people. 

Yes, there are some people who're st...

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Not Just Participation Trophies Are Rubbish. All Trophies Are.

It's spreading widely on the internet that we ruined excellence by handing out participation trophies. I'd like to one up that. 

It’s not just that participation trophies are rubbish. It’s that all trophies are rubbish.

If you are actually enjoying what you are doing in an activity and it’s meaningf...

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Why Am I Stuck In The Past? Why Am I Stuck In Life?

If you rather watch a video about this topic, watch the video above. ^

"Why Am I Stuck In The Past?"
"Why Am I Stuck In Life?"
"Why Am I Stuck In My Own Head?"
"Why Am I Stuck In My Career?"
"Why Am I Stuck In My Relationship?"
"Why Am I Stuck In My Marriage?"

Being stuck in the past can be like car...

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Do Your Best Every Day. It's That Simple.

 

Doing Your Best Every Day

 

There are many guiding principles as to how we should live our lives. There are certain overarching principles which help though. I follow one in particular and it's advice I would give anyone.

Do your best every day, it's that simple.

- Zephyr Khambatta

 

In...

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Your Emotional Range

 

What Is Your Emotional Range?

 

Try not to have the emotional range of a teaspoon.

- Zephyr Khambatta


Sometimes we go from 0 to 100 really fast. This happens because we still haven't understood how to deal with our own emotions.

Your life will be infinitely easier if you become a person ...

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The Best Thing You Can Do For Yourself & The Planet

 

The Best Thing You Can Do For Yourself (& Yes It's The Same Thing For The Planet)

The number 1 thing you can do for yourself and the planet, is to keep your vibration high. As high as you can. All day, every day.

To different people that's going to mean different things. It's ok. You decide from ...

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