Zephyr's Blog

Is Using Just Someone's First Name Acceptable?

In Short, I Say Use People's First Names

I don’t feel like using someone’s first name is disrespectful, contrary to what some cultures would have you believe. Mr. Tan, Mrs. Jacobs, Mr. Rogers. We're told that it's more respectful to use a surname rather than address the person. I...

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16 Success Guidelines For 2024

Guidelines For Success In 2024


1. No fake friendships.

2. Only love.

3. Gentleness over irritation.

4. Goals over despair.

5. Step 1 is every day. Every day is step 1.

6. Saying ”no” IS love. Saying “yes” to everything is haphazard messy behaviour.

7. Eating healthier...

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What To Do When They Ask You To "Prove" Something Spiritual

What To Do When Someone Asks You To "Prove" Something Spiritual

 

Often in my spiritual and metaphysical explorations (more on the page "My Story"), especially when speaking about phenomena, or the experiences from my healing sessions, channelling, mediumship and so on, I'd get a...

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3 Things You Achieve By Bad-Mouthing People

What are the 3 things you can achieve by bad-mouthing people? 

  1. You can waste your time.
  2. You can mess with your emotional balance.
  3. You can make your outlook on life worse.

Despite all our progress on Earth, all our spiritual awakening, all our visiting religious locations on Sundays, I...

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Only Your Soul Can Tell You If It Feels "Right".

Does What You're Doing Feel "Right"?

 

Over the last 8 years, I've been back and forth a lot on all my life pursuits. Introspecting, challenging my past mental constructs, and really challenging everyone around me too. (politely - much more politely now that I'm back to my balanced self, but...

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Your words have power. Use them carefully.

*Names have been changed to protect the identity of people in the incident.


What you need to know before I tell you about this incident.

I have been recently applying for a job. Depending on how we want to frame this, and I'm keeping in mind the title of this blog post, I can either say, "It's...

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What Is Friendship?

What I Was Taught About Friendship


When I was young, and to be honest our entire lives, my parents have led by example and shown us how to maintain amazing relationships. "Be a good human being", "it is better to be kind than to be right" and "be nice to him/her/them" were regular phrases I heard...

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The Greatest Gift You Can Give Yourself

The Greatest Gift

The greatest gift you can give yourself, is the ability, choice, capability, permission, confidence, love and safety, to be yourself.

Whether this means you like to go to Africa, get on to the grass and roar like a Lion if you think you're one or whether you like to secretly...

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Make Great Choices.

What happens in the future? Well, that primarily depends on one thing, whichever way we slice this equation. 

Also, it is one of the things all humans are interested in finding out. We cannot seem to sit still and enjoy the present. *chuckles*

Your choices determine your future. You are a...

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